About 95 percent of free offerings are all traps. It is like trapping an animal in the bush, you have to provide some food on the trap before you can catch the animal.
Both men and women apply these same formulas to get the attention of the person in mind through food and drinks. Women mostly ask for some petty petty things to prepare your attention.
Only a few men will spend on ladies without thinking about sex. There is nothing like a free offering.