Never shake, it is a cool matter, be a man of boldness, no matter the standard of a woman, she is far below the power of a man. Make a move and go forward. There are thousands and millions of women who are eager for men.
The lady below is set for marriage, the question is who is going forward. It is the man who channels the direction of a woman.
In your courtship, the two of you can address both dos and the don’t.