Perhaps, the choice of ladies that most men choose as their wives is the major factor that attributes to divorces in recent times.
Again, where men select their wives are more questionable. Most are from the clubs, funeral grounds, and the like.
The traditional methods of getting married from the known family and knowing the family backgrounds were the best.
Today, many guys picked their wives from Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp, and the rest. What do you expect from such marriages?