When it comes to romantic attraction, physical preferences vary widely but one question continues to spark lively debate: what body shape are men most attracted to? From slim figures to curvier women with big hips or full busts, male preferences are shaped by culture, media, personal experience, and even biology.
Across several global studies, curvier women, particularly those with fuller hips and buttocks, often top the list in terms of physical attraction. Evolutionary psychology suggests that men are subconsciously drawn to signs of fertility and health. “The hourglass figure, with a waist-to-hip ratio of about 0.7, has long been associated with reproductive fitness,” explains Dr. Nathan Kojo, a psychologist at the University of Ghana.
In West Africa, cultural norms strongly favour women with big bottoms and full thighs. In places like Ghana and Nigeria, songs, movies, and fashion trends celebrate fuller-figured women. “A woman with a body,” says 28-year-old Accra-based taxi driver Kweku Appiah, “is seen as confident, well-fed, and attractive. It’s just how we were raised.”
However, slim women are also widely admired, particularly in urban areas where Western media influence is strong. Fashion models, beauty pageants, and social media often promote slender physiques as the ideal. This has led many younger men to associate slimness with elegance, health, and modernity.
Meanwhile, women with larger breasts are often admired for their perceived femininity and nurturing appearance. “Men see breasts as a symbol of motherhood and warmth,” says relationship expert Ama Asantewaa. “But it’s not universal. Some men prioritise shape and personality over size.”
Interestingly, many men say they do not have a fixed preference. For 34-year-old teacher Bernard Yeboah, personality outweighs physical shape. “Yes, appearance attracts at first, but it’s character, respect, and how she carries herself that matters most.”
Social media has played a major role in broadening definitions of beauty. Influencers with diverse body types are now gaining admiration, helping men and women appreciate beauty in many forms. From thick and confident to fit and petite, attraction is increasingly personalised.
Experts caution that promoting a single “ideal” body type can damage self-esteem and encourage unhealthy comparisons. “Every woman has her unique beauty,” says Dr. Ama Owusu, a health and wellness coach. “Men’s preferences are not all the same, and women shouldn’t feel pressured to conform to one shape.”
Ultimately, while certain body types may enjoy greater popularity at different times or places, true attraction is often about confidence, connection, and self-care qualities that can shine through in any shape.
The summary is that character matters more than any form or shape of a woman!
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